how to reach god and live happily

To live in this materialistic world as we discussed earlier we should not have desires,fear.
But to reach god,know god ,live happily in present life and not to have birth again(which is the most important goal of every person i.e to have mukti,moksha) we should have ONLY ONE DESIRE:DESIRE TO REACH GOD.we must have desire to know god.nothing is important before god.god is great. god protects us , bless us ,makes us live happily.any kind of force is waste before god.we should daily sincerely should pray to god.always think of god.feel the god .then automatically life will be happy without any problems.so we should have only desire of reaching god.
WE SHOULD HAVE FEAR OF GOD.god is everywhere ,he knows all,he sees all,we cant cheat god.we must not do any harm to others,dont make others life miserable,we must have fear of god that if we do any harm to others,make others life miserable then he will definitely punish us.we should have fear of god before doing anything.we cant escape or hide from god .we should help others but not cheat others.try to do maximum good things.dont harm weak.always have fear of god then u automatically do good things.god will always help.

for pleasant,happy life

NOTE:the following is for this materialistic world,but for spiritual which is the real goal of every person,which is most , most important see "how to reach god and live happily" post.
In this world so many people are living but among them only few people r happy.Why like that ,becoz they sincerely follw the following rules.
RULE 1:DONT HAVE DESIRES
we all must do our duty sincerely without thinking of result.we must not have desires.the problem comes if those desires r not fulfilled.we compare ourselves with others.they have car,we must also have.they have building we should also have.he is tall, i am not.he is fair i am not.dont ever have such desires.know what u r.how much u r efficient.try to improve thats it.for all the sorrow the main reason is having desires.so dont have desires.
RULE 2:DONT HAVE FEAR
dont have fear of anything in the life.lead the life with courage then automatically success comes in life and life will be happy.examples :some have fear of whether he will pass in exam wrote yesterday,with that fear he cannot concentrate on next exam.in interview becoz of fear whether he will be selected or not he cannot give his interview well.SO ever dont have fear of anything,lead the life with courage.

self confidence

SIMPLE STEPS FOR BEING SELF-CONFIDENT.
1.DRESS SHARP(neatly,not over make up)
2.GOOD POSTURE(stand straight,keep head up,make eyecontact)
3.SIT IN FRONT ROW AND DONT HESITATE TO SPEAK UP.
4.DO EXERCISE FOR GOOD BODY SHAPE(it gives more confidence)
5.KEEP SMILING
6.DONT HAVE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS(always think positive and always have hope that good will happen).
7.PRAY OR MEDITATE(most important)
8.ADMIT UR MISTAKES AND LEARN FROM THEM
9.FOCUS ON BASICS,KEEP SMALL GOALS AND TRY TO ACHIEVE THEM
10.BE TRUE AND HONEST TO URSELF.